Sun Mar 02 05:10:00 UTC 2025: ## Love Is Blind’s Sara Carton’s Family Casts Doubt on Speedy Engagement

**[City, State] –** Love Is Blind season 4 star Sara Carton’s whirlwind engagement to Ben Mezzenga is facing scrutiny, not only from viewers but also from her own family. Sara’s sister, Lisa, and Lisa’s partner, Kelsie, expressed significant reservations about the relationship after meeting Ben. While acknowledging the couple’s strong connection, Lisa and Kelsie voiced concerns about the speed of their engagement and perceived disparities in their backgrounds and viewpoints. Kelsie specifically noted Ben’s “different privilege bucket” compared to Sara’s.

The family’s apprehension was further fueled by a TikTok video alleging Ben’s past mistreatment of women. The video, posted by a woman named Andra Berghoff, didn’t name Ben directly but alluded to his past as a University of Minnesota baseball player—a detail that uniquely identifies him among the Love Is Blind cast. Ben confirmed seeing the video and stated he blocked Berghoff after their brief Tinder interaction four years prior, claiming he had no recollection of any significant wrongdoing.

Sara, while acknowledging her skepticism, stated she chose to continue trusting Ben, despite the allegations. “I wanted to continue trusting him,” she told Entertainment Weekly. “But of course, this TikTok I needed to keep in the back of my mind. I wasn’t going to dismiss it or disregard it, by any means.” This internal conflict highlights the challenges the couple faces as they navigate their relationship beyond the pods. The family’s reservations and the unresolved past allegations add a layer of uncertainty to the future of Sara and Ben’s relationship.

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