– 13 Going on 30, released in 2004, was once seen as a formative film with a strong female lead
– The film is now being criticized for being anti-feminist, promoting prioritization of looks over personality
– Jenna’s happy ending is seen as giving up career aspirations to be with a man
– The film’s message of being true to oneself is seen as a major feminist red flag
– Jenna falling for her male best friend is criticized as a classic patriarchal movie trope
– Despite its flaws, the biggest lesson from the film is to be authentic and not give in to trends or societal pressure
– The author still loves rewatching the film, finding a positive lesson in being true to oneself

Overall, the article highlights the anti-feminist themes and patriarchal tropes in 13 Going on 30 while also acknowledging a positive message of authenticity and self-acceptance.